
Marie’s Blog

Finding Focus When Everything Feels Scattered
When life feels unfocused, is it better to deliberately pick a priority or wait for clarity to emerge? Sometimes, structured focus can help provide direction, while other times, true focus only appears when we slow down and reconnect with ourselves. The challenge is finding a balance between choosing a path and allowing focus to reveal itself naturally.
Hall of Mirrors: When Your Thoughts Turn Against You
Feeling trapped in loops of overthinking, self-doubt, and panic can feel like being lost in a hall of mirrors—every thought reflecting back on itself with no way out. When the pressure to "be a person" adds to the chaos, even simple interactions can feel overwhelming.
The Disorienting Experience of Being Human
Stability doesn’t always bring relief—it can unearth a deeper kind of uncertainty. When survival mode isn’t necessary, what’s left? The struggle to feel embodied, the fear of stagnation, the grief of realizing that being human is harder than expected. This isn’t failure. It’s recalibration.
The Human Mind: A City of Thought, Memory, and Perception
The human mind is not a single entity but a constantly shifting network of thoughts, emotions, and patterns—more like a city than a static object. It predicts, narrates, and distorts reality, sometimes acting as a powerful tool, other times as a barrier to experiencing life fully. Understanding the mind isn’t about defining it as a single thing but recognizing its complexity and contradictions.
What Varies Among Humans vs. What Is Universally True
Some aspects of human nature—like personality, cognition, and values—differ widely from person to person, while others—like mortality, embodiment, and change—are true for everyone. Understanding the difference helps us navigate relationships, self-perception, and meaning in life.
Why Improv Felt So Hard: Processing Discomfort in Spontaneity
Taking an improv class for the first time brought up unexpected difficulty and emotional triggers. The struggle wasn’t just about performing—it was about self-expression, embodiment, and navigating deep-seated fears of losing control.
The Struggle of Self-Touch: Navigating Embodiment and Pain
Avoiding physical touch with yourself—especially in moments of pain—can create a disconnect between body and mind. When even self-massage feels "wrong" or "ineffective," the result can be a cycle of inaction and chronic discomfort. Understanding this resistance and exploring new ways to connect with your body can open the door to self-care without pressure or perfectionism.
Why Is Art So Expensive? The Economics and Illusions of High Art
Art’s high price isn’t just about creativity—it’s about scarcity, status, and financial maneuvering. From tax loopholes to artificial exclusivity, the high art world operates as much on economic manipulation as it does on artistic merit. If high art culture feels gross to you, it’s probably because it turns human expression into a playground for the ultra-wealthy rather than something accessible to all.
Processing Childhood Memories and the Fear of Being Overlooked
Memories have a way of surfacing when we least expect them—sometimes as small flashes, other times as deeply unsettling realizations. As I look back on my childhood, I see patterns of feeling unseen, unheard, and unimportant. These early experiences shaped the way I navigate relationships today, leaving behind insecurities that still surface. But now, I’m learning how to recognize those old wounds and find new ways to feel secure in my connections.
How Commercials Manipulate You and Why It Feels Insulting
Commercials aren’t calling you stupid outright, but they are designed to manipulate. They assume you’re distracted, driven by emotion, and need repetition to absorb their message. If ads make you feel insulted or disgusted, that’s because they’re crafted to bypass your critical thinking and trigger a response—whether it’s desire, fear, or urgency. Recognizing this is the first step to reclaiming your attention and autonomy.